Comments on: What to Do When a Friend Experiences A Crisis or Tragedy

By: Angela Skelton

Angela Skelton — Fri, 01 Mar 2019 15:33:35 +0000

To add to your point about paper plates and utensils, toilet paper and hand soap for the bathroom are also a great help. Maybe washing power if a large number of family will be staying together.

By: Lee

Lee — Fri, 01 Mar 2019 14:37:45 +0000

In reply to Brooksie. I am glad you think it was on point. You taught me a lot with your grace and kindness to others during such a difficult time.

By: Lee

Lee — Fri, 01 Mar 2019 14:36:51 +0000

In reply to Marbeth. Thank you so much!

By: Lee

Lee — Fri, 01 Mar 2019 14:36:38 +0000

In reply to Katherine. Such a great idea! Thanks for sharing!

By: Lee

Lee — Fri, 01 Mar 2019 14:36:28 +0000

In reply to Kate. I am so sorry about your loss. I maybe should clarify that I was talking about people who have specifically signed up for meal calendars texting to set up a drop off time. I think meal and care calendars are very helpful!! And, yes, agree to check in with someone in the inner rings because the amount of food can be overwhelming. Thanks so much for your insight.

By: Kate

Kate — Fri, 01 Mar 2019 14:23:10 +0000

Every person’s physical and emotional needs are different, but i might disagree about not coordinating your meal before dropping it off. We lost my father last weekend, so this is very fresh on my mind. Our friends and family were abundantly generous to my immediate family, but we had to throw away so much food because so many people delivered meals the first day or two. Although we deeply appreciated the heart behind it, the food became a burden because the freezer and refrigerator were full and we couldn’t possibly eat that much food. Maybe coordinating with someone other than those in the inner rings would be better than being in constant contact with those at the center, but checking in with someone who knows what’s going on isn’t a bad idea.

By: Katherine

Katherine — Fri, 01 Mar 2019 13:24:55 +0000

During the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale, I buy several Barefoot Dreams blankets and sweaters. I like to have them on hand to take to a friend when they are going through a difficult time. It’s such a nice gift, and buying them in advance saves time and money!

By: Marbeth

Marbeth — Fri, 01 Mar 2019 00:27:44 +0000

LOVE this.....the "ring" theory is perfect

By: Brooksie

Brooksie — Fri, 01 Mar 2019 00:00:21 +0000

Thank you for the thoughtful post. I was beyond lucky to have such great, helpful friends (yourself included!) during our time of need.

By: Lee

Lee — Thu, 28 Feb 2019 23:27:50 +0000

In reply to Audrey B Hurst. I am so glad it was helpful!